Babysitting Blues
So tonight was the first time we left our son with a sitter. It's been four years of family care whenever my husband and I had things to do or needed a date night. I can't tell you how apprehensive I was. Especially after my last post...this is a crazy world we live in.
BUT...we didn't just drag in someone off a street corner to sit for us. It was an intern that worked at my husband's office for the summer. When my son came to visit his office, I noticed how he was drawn to this beautiful girl and how well she interacted with him.
Long story short we asked her to babysit last week. I asked her over to hang out with us on Sunday to get our son used to her being her ahead of time. I checked her references, which were stellar! And finally did a lot of praying.
Tonight, my son couldn't get me out of the house fast enough once Sarah got there. He told me to leave! With Sarah, he had his captive audience and was so excited to play with her. I checked on them once via cell phone from our financial peace class tonight...and of course, they were doing fine.
Here's the shocking part...I got home on time and expected to have a warm homecoming. Who wouldn't be excited to see their mom? Nope! As soon as I walked in, they were sitting side-by-side on the couch, watching "How It's Made." As soon as he saw me...he started to cry and told me to leave. He wanted to be alone with Sarah and was upset I came home. What??
I had to laugh that he wanted me to leave. On top of that, he got upset that she then had to go home. It took thirty whole minutes for him to snap out of his funk. Now that is some serious Babysitting Blues!
BUT...we didn't just drag in someone off a street corner to sit for us. It was an intern that worked at my husband's office for the summer. When my son came to visit his office, I noticed how he was drawn to this beautiful girl and how well she interacted with him.
Long story short we asked her to babysit last week. I asked her over to hang out with us on Sunday to get our son used to her being her ahead of time. I checked her references, which were stellar! And finally did a lot of praying.
Tonight, my son couldn't get me out of the house fast enough once Sarah got there. He told me to leave! With Sarah, he had his captive audience and was so excited to play with her. I checked on them once via cell phone from our financial peace class tonight...and of course, they were doing fine.
Here's the shocking part...I got home on time and expected to have a warm homecoming. Who wouldn't be excited to see their mom? Nope! As soon as I walked in, they were sitting side-by-side on the couch, watching "How It's Made." As soon as he saw me...he started to cry and told me to leave. He wanted to be alone with Sarah and was upset I came home. What??
I had to laugh that he wanted me to leave. On top of that, he got upset that she then had to go home. It took thirty whole minutes for him to snap out of his funk. Now that is some serious Babysitting Blues!
Comments
I commented over on Rindy's Evangelism Post. It was directed to you and her and I was wanting some wisdom from you - have you gone over there?
Umm...how does he know the word 'initiative'? When I got to the letter I - he said, "Initiative...seeing something that needs to be done..and doing it!"
I just laughed. Thats my kid! Not your typical four year old!
That is so great for you and your husband...the bonus is that she sounds like a really great girl...which is a nice side bonus!
I am so glad you guys got a chance to get out a bit!
:) Melissa