tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post5161096374316648974..comments2023-08-17T04:16:23.627-05:00Comments on Wornoutwoman: Interactive Participation Needed PleaseKimberly McKayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12221063798391890358noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-57592635227223508732007-06-27T19:47:00.000-05:002007-06-27T19:47:00.000-05:00I may be too late to help but I actually had a sim...I may be too late to help but I actually had a similar situation as this one, not exact but I can relate. I'd open the letters and probably within minutes of finding them. I would need some sort of closure.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12731583979680673836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-31222249366121788092007-06-17T23:52:00.000-05:002007-06-17T23:52:00.000-05:00Thank you so much ieat_snowmanpoop! I just love y...Thank you so much ieat_snowmanpoop! I just love your name by the way! Appreciate your help.Kimberly McKayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12221063798391890358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-13440795061108186732007-06-17T18:43:00.000-05:002007-06-17T18:43:00.000-05:00Funny you should ask. I do know my father but in r...Funny you should ask. I do know my father but in recent years I don't know my father anymore if that makes any sense to you. We rarely speak.<BR/><BR/>So my opinion on this one is slightly swayed. I would say C. But I don't think I would actually contact him without discussing it over with my mother about why I never was told. Why exactly was he kept out of my life. Bitterness or was there a real reason pertaining to me. And even then I might not contact him.Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04261744998143693124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-9385037866838763332007-06-17T18:32:00.000-05:002007-06-17T18:32:00.000-05:00I'll ask her!I'll ask her!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-62320234411320199372007-06-17T17:35:00.000-05:002007-06-17T17:35:00.000-05:00Teri...can always count on you! Thank you so much....Teri...can always count on you! Thank you so much. Wonder what your buddy, ieatsnowpoop, would say?Kimberly McKayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12221063798391890358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-73198938110476294832007-06-17T15:30:00.000-05:002007-06-17T15:30:00.000-05:00I would open them and see if there was anything m...I would open them and see if there was anything making it worth pursuing a relationship. Funny... I recently read a book with this premise. It was called "Vanishing Acts" by Jodi Picoult.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-432975065449345202007-06-17T10:42:00.000-05:002007-06-17T10:42:00.000-05:00Chris your input has been invaluable! Jennifer.....Chris your input has been invaluable! <BR/>Jennifer...you've given some great input too.<BR/>Anonymous....yes we're all adults and your logic has helped in the research. <BR/><BR/>thank you to you all...Kimberly McKayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12221063798391890358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-23583502061442959332007-06-16T21:44:00.000-05:002007-06-16T21:44:00.000-05:00Absolutely, unequivocally C. We're all adults her...Absolutely, unequivocally C. We're all adults here in your "hypothetical scenario", right? So...I'm finding out about my dad, & my mom can find her own way to deal with that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-20893848102454885512007-06-16T21:16:00.000-05:002007-06-16T21:16:00.000-05:00This is a very personal decision with no correct a...This is a very personal decision with no correct answer. It would be something that the person involved would have to consider and answer to the best of there ability and not get a survey answer as we can all say "Screw Him" or "Yeah way to go dad" whichever.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16967496089674122353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19896003.post-10342922061121343982007-06-16T20:54:00.000-05:002007-06-16T20:54:00.000-05:00C.How can you leave a letter unopened? I wouldn't...C.<BR/><BR/>How can you leave a letter unopened? I wouldn't be able to control my curiosity. So yeah, I'd open them. Probably immediately.<BR/><BR/>Then . . . who know's. Maybe then I'd burn them. Probably, actually, unless there was some compelling evidence in the letter indicating there was some change. Some redemption . . . something.<BR/><BR/>But if all that was in the letters was selfish bullshit--which would probably be the case--then I'd probably burn them.<BR/><BR/>This struck a nerve, can you tell?<BR/><BR/>As a son,I hate fathers day. So mine might not be your ideal cross section for the population response. :)<BR/><BR/>Later,<BR/>ChrisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com